Cheers! My Birthday Celebration with the Napa Valley Wine Country Tours

After losing my grandmother a few weeks before my birthday, I really needed to celebrate life. I know she would want me to do that. This year, I decided to ring in a new year of life in wine country. My soror traveled up from So Cal to visit. This would be her first time in Napa. I didn’t want to drive so instead, we bought bus tickets for the Napa Valley Wine Country Tours.

Let me tell you something, going on this bus tour was one of the BEST decisions I made. The Napa Valley Wine Country Tours bus isn’t just any bus. It’s a limo bus that looks like a VIP club lounge on wheels. We paid $119 for an 8-hour trip, visit to 4 wineries in Sonoma and Napa counties, continental breakfast and lunch. It was worth every penny. The tastings aren't covered in the bus fare, but they ran about $10-$25. Wineries won't charge you for tastings if you buy a bottle. I recommend this for tourists and any Bay Area locals who have folks visiting from out of town and want a short excursion to Nap…

I Love Buddha, Money, Tough Love
and Black Karaoke

If your coffee didn't wake you up this morning, I'm sure this shot of Buddha from VH1's reality shows I Love New York and I Love Money 2 could get your blood pumping. I saw this picture on one of my favorite gossip blogs The Young, Black and Fabulous. You can go to the website to see more photos of Buddha getting his run on in Malibu. He is definitely a Cocoa Hottie.

VH1 reality shows are my guilty pleasure. Every season "Flavor of Love" or "I Love New York" aired I swore I wouldn't watch them. But I did. I watched every season. I was good and didn't watch "I Love Money 1" but somehow I just got caught up on I Love Money 2. Who do you think will win? My friend thinks It will will in. That's not a typo, the guy's name is "It." I think Frenchie is going home with the $250K. Right now, I'm ready for Buck Wild to get the boot. She is annoying.

Update: What the heck was going through Cali's head, voting in the vault when she didn't have to? Bad move. Now she's gone and I must suffer through another episode with Buck Wild. Just great.

I'm really feeling VH1's Tough Love. The show is about eight single women who go through a dating boot camp led by matchmaker Steven Ward. He gives good dating advice and the women have interesting activities. In last night's episode they posed individually for a sexy and tasteful photo shoot. Well, most were tasteful. And they had a lingerie dating party, which was also tasteful. Except for a few. There's a Cocoa Fly sista on the cast--Abiola Abrams. She's a writer and journalist like me so I'm cheering for her to find a boo. And Abiola seems so sweet and classy. I don't know what my sista was thinking when she decided to pose with cupcakes and a tiara for her sexy photo shoot. But, I'm still pulling for her. My other favorites are Jody, the workaholic jaded from past lovers. And Stasha, the Alpha-female ballerina from Serbia who is quick to tell you that she was a three-time Playboy Playmate of the Year in Croatia.

From reality TV to my weekend reality...I have to give a shout out to Gable House Bowl in Torrance, Calif. On Saturday night I went there with sorors and friends for Karaoke night. I've gone to Karaoke bars before but this one stands out. I had so much fun. The audience was 99.9% black and you know when it comes to performing black folks always have to take things to another level. The music was great--Kanye West, Sunshine Anderson, Gnarls Barkley, Alicia Keys, R. Kelly, even Keith Sweat. The places I've been to don't have such a wide hip hop and R&B selection. There were performers who worked in the bar and they could sing and dance. I'm not talking about doing a little 2-step dance. I'm talking about some serious pop-locking, hip-hop, spinning and sliding on the floor dancing. For a second it was starting to turn into the club. I can't describe a few of the dance moves because my momma reads this blog. But let's just say somebody sang R. Kelly's "Feeling On Your Booty." My favorite performers were these two little old Asian ladies. How did they get in the mix? I have no idea but they were cute and the audience gave them love. One sang Alica Keys "No One." I still can't believe they stayed out past 1am partying with young black folks. Only in Southern California. I sang Destiny's Child "Bootylicious" with a soror and Bon Jovi's "You Give Love a Bad Name." The host gave me props for singing Bon Jovi to an all black crowd. LOL! But folks were feeling it.

My only complaints are the place needs to do a better job on keeping the bathrooms clean. And $10 for Karaoke is a bit much especially since people are buying drinks at the bar. Aside from those things I look forward to going back.

Note: Pictures were not displayed to protect the guilty.


  1. Thanks for the love, Cocoa Fly!!

    Check out my celeb cupcakes love cakes reel here:

    It's a goddess thang, lol. Gotta keep it classy, not trashy, ya know?
    Sending love,


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