tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457712359004161559.post4331146102991787946..comments2023-10-24T06:02:15.327-07:00Comments on Cocoa Fly: Black Blogger Pretends to be White Woman On Dating Site OkCupidJenee Dardenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17274216901288021997noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457712359004161559.post-72661926110911523442014-10-20T03:02:26.814-07:002014-10-20T03:02:26.814-07:00You could declare it's a disease, or even a tr...You could declare it's a disease, or even a transsexual's intellect is often a reincarnated heart in which sadly proceeded to go into a entire body from the contrary sex. Transsexualism offers therefore its foundation inside the heart in which senses a new struggle while using the entire body characteristics presented this. Here is some <a href="http://www.transsexualdatingsite.net/" rel="nofollow">transgender articles</a> for you!<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08109867068757402125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457712359004161559.post-64187367578541501432010-02-24T12:51:48.912-08:002010-02-24T12:51:48.912-08:00@ Anonymous: Girl, I'm with you. I don't w...@ Anonymous: Girl, I'm with you. I don't want to be bothered with a man who doesn't want me for whatever reason. I'm sure you got it going on and you'll meet someone. <br /><br />@ Ozzie: Thanks for reading my blog. Spread the word about Cocoa Fly to friends. Thanks for calling some of us women out who look at the income status and occupation field on dating sites LOL. And thanks for shedding light on some of the issues men face.Jenee Dardenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17274216901288021997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457712359004161559.post-21809161722480314012010-02-23T22:54:43.852-08:002010-02-23T22:54:43.852-08:00Fist off, id like to say that this is an excellent...Fist off, id like to say that this is an excellent blog and keep doing what your doing. Now as for the topic, i do feel for you and all of my educated black sistas out there. Its not easy for black males and females nowadays. However, I have to co-sign with my man Joe...women do judge on wealth and status, which is way a bigger guy may have more success than a bigger girl. He wont get women based on his looks, but he get them with his wallet or status. <br /><br />However I will agree that black women have been given an extremely bad rap. Which is more reason why you should be extra diligent when looking for a mate that can truly value what you have to offer. <br /><br />I wish all my sistas good luck and know that there are plenty of brothas out here looking for you.Ozzienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457712359004161559.post-6953161250614691712010-02-11T17:29:04.724-08:002010-02-11T17:29:04.724-08:00Being a black woman with a few extra pounds, I'...Being a black woman with a few extra pounds, I've experienced the same issue. And to my very nice white female friends who swear by match.com, I finally had to explain that it's not the same for black women as it is for all others. Then I had them look at the ethnicities that men choose. Sure enough they were surprised. Interestingly, when I've reached out to the white men who viewed me, they've responded very nicely. The black men do not respond or just wink. In any case, I just tell myself they are too intimidated so I wouldn't want to be with them anyway!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457712359004161559.post-38473912620485685672010-02-09T15:46:20.716-08:002010-02-09T15:46:20.716-08:00Thanks for the male opinion. So you think women tu...Thanks for the male opinion. So you think women turn down the nice guys online? I believe that. It's hard to judge someone based on a profile photo and self-description. I'm glad your girlfriend took a chance and was pleasantly surprised by you in all departments. ;)Jenee Dardenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17274216901288021997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457712359004161559.post-48521814322884134612010-02-06T15:24:32.064-08:002010-02-06T15:24:32.064-08:00I am a white male, and I'm currently dating a ...I am a white male, and I'm currently dating a black woman.<br /><br />There are plenty of assumptions people make according to race. Even my girlfriend was surprised that I wasn't so prim and proper, or that my maker didn't leave me with shortcomings below the belt. She dated many men of different race, and wasn't disappointed with me in any way.<br /><br />In my experience on dating sites, few women responded to my kind and respectful emails. Most went unanswered, and swift rejection was the usual response.<br /><br />I think women tend to judge men by wealth and status. My luck might have been different had I said I was a doctor or lawyer.<br /><br />I would suggest to any woman, try using a male friend's photo on a dating site and see what kind of response you get. You'd be shocked with the number of unanswered emails. The silence is humbling.<br /><br />JoeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457712359004161559.post-58453865388352028722010-02-04T15:26:15.275-08:002010-02-04T15:26:15.275-08:00@ Kia:
Nice job on the article and thanks for post...@ Kia:<br />Nice job on the article and thanks for posting on my site.<br /><br />Unfortunately prejudice is alive and kicking in 2000-something and will never die. But you're a smart, talented, pretty young woman and you're gonna meet guys who don't buy into the stereotypes and will approach you. I see you've gotten some offers at The Frisky already. LOL You're putting yourself out there and that will increase your chances. Good luck!Jenee Dardenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17274216901288021997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457712359004161559.post-83696765551750038162010-02-03T16:42:35.102-08:002010-02-03T16:42:35.102-08:00Hey! Thanks for reading my article.
I too used t...Hey! Thanks for reading my article. <br /><br />I too used to be on Match and your comment about men choosing all races except for black... oh my sweet god that used to burn me up! How is it the year 2000 something and this is still happening? HOW?Kiahttp://blog.kiamatthews.comnoreply@blogger.com